2012年7月10日星期二

Signs Of An Abusive Relationship - 6 Questions To Ask To See If You're In An Abusive Relationship

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It's no secret that we see what we project. And when it comes to intimate partner abuse, doing so can have repercussions for all of us.

Prior abuse in one's life can set the stage for misinterpretations of our adult partner's actions, intentions, feelings and relationship to us.

Now this doesn't mean that when one comes from some type of childhood abuse that perceived intimate partner abuse, or even "controlling" behavior, isn't real. As we also know there is a greater likelihood of prior childhood abuse (whether emotional, verbal,Marrone Hogan Donna Interactive Scarpe, physical or sexual) for individuals in adult abusive relationships.

Properly Identifying "Intimate Partner Violence"

What it does mean is that when abuse is felt, one ought to ask themselves:

1) What do I see in my relationship?

2) What do I feel in my relationship?

3) How has this relationship impacted my thoughts,Lässige Schuhe MBT Meli Navy Männer, feelings,Hogan Uomo Interactive Nero Bianco, and behavior relative to myself?

4) How has this relationship impacted my thoughts, feelings, and behavior relative to my partner?

5) How do other people see my partner in general?

6) And,Hogan Progetto Donna Bianco Grano, how do they see my partner in relation to me?

The wealth of information that comes forth in such an inquiry can help one parse out "intimate partner violence" from the backdrop of their individual personal history.

It will also help the victim recognize the constellation of symptoms that define intimate partner violence. And this will arm them with insight on how to recognize the "red flags" of abusive relationships. With this knowledge, one can stop guessing and instantly begin to properly manage and treat their current circumstances.

Impact of Improperly Assuming "Intimate Partner Violence"

As far as the repercussions of inaccurately defining abuse...brace yourself for the enormous impact on all of us: oneself,see more, one's partner, and the public in general.

For oneself: Improperly defining a condition prevents one from seeing what they are actually dealing with and consequently prevents remedy.

For one's partner: Improperly accusing one of being an abuser falsely labels another person socially and/or psychologically.

For society at large: Making accusations of abuse or allegations of abuse,Christian Louboutin Très Prive Spikes chaussures 120mmLivraison gratuite pour vous, especially in the break-up phase of a relationship,Frauen MBT Kisumu 2 Sandale - 012, casts doubt in the public when domestic abuse victims do bring forth the courage to reach out. And when there is doubt,read more, legitimate help may not be forth coming.

Domestic abuse is not a subject to take lightly,read more, nor is it a condition to self-diagnose. Rather it is a real relationship problem that requires objective and accurate identification. 相关的主题文章:

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